From Idea to Ink: Behind the Scenes of the Come Closer™ Second Edition
When we first launched the Come Closer™ Intimacy Deck, it felt like magic—watching couples laugh, talk, and rediscover each other in new ways. But from the beginning, I knew this deck would evolve.
When I originally co-created Come Closer™ with Vielka Kano, a renowned sex therapist, I told her something I’ve learned after bringing more than a dozen decks to life: the second printing always brings surprises. With every game, real people teach us how it can go deeper—and that’s where the true magic happens.
🌹 Listening to Love in Action
After the first print run sold out, we started hearing from real couples who had been playing for months.
They loved how it opened conversations—but they wanted more activities that moved beyond talking and into touch, play, and presence. They wanted ways to make connection feel more alive, more embodied.
So Vielka took their feedback to heart and designed two new activity cards—prompts that bring the body, not just the mind, into the game. We also fine-tuned the language on several cards for even more resonance and ease.
✍️ From Late-Night Texts to Final Proofs
Bringing this new edition together was part creativity, part comedy. Vielka and I went back and forth over text messages to get each detail just right.
At one point, she accidentally sent me a message in Spanish that wasn’t meant for me—I waited to place the print order because I thought she was still revising! A few days later, she laughed and said, “No, that message was for someone else!” Turns out, she did have one last tweak. Perfect timing.
These little moments—full of laughter, collaboration, and care—are what make each deck a true labor of love.
🖤 What’s New in the Second Edition
Printed in the USA on premium 300gsm smooth stock
2 new activity cards inspired by real couples
Refined language across key prompts
Luxurious black velvet drawstring bag (no box)
Instant access to the Print & Play version
New What Turns You On? Discovery Quiz
Digital Invitation to Intimacy Guide (updated version coming soon)
Every order includes instant digital access, so couples can start playing the same night they preorder.
🔥 The Promise
Before: initiation felt awkward, nights slipped into routine, and passion dimmed under the weight of everyday life.
After: playfulness comes naturally again. The spark feels easy, flowing—connection is alive, and desire starts to grow.
In just one evening, this deck helps couples learn from each other in ways they never have before—conversations that spark curiosity, connection that feels effortless, and insights that carry straight into the bedroom.
As one couple shared:
“It felt like we rediscovered each other—in every way—in just one night.”
💫 Why This One Matters
I’m especially proud of this edition because it’s not just an upgrade—it’s an evolution.
We’ve added a new digital guide that supports couples in integrating what they discover during play. These new prompts and reflections help deepen the experience beyond one evening, allowing the connection to continue growing long after the cards are returned to their velvet bag.
And honestly? Sending the second edition to print feels different. The first time, it was excitement. This time, it’s proof— the solid proof that couples want to grow together, laugh again, and keep choosing closeness.
🚀 Ready to Come Closer?
The decks are officially at the printer, with shipping expected to begin on October 24th.
If you preorder now, you’ll get:
💻 Instant digital access to the Print & Play deck
🧠 The What Turns You On? Quiz
📘 The pre-release Invitation to Intimacy guide (and the updated version as soon as it’s ready)
👉 Preorder Come Closer™ Now → click here
Because connection shouldn’t have to wait.
🪞 Closing Thought
This second edition is more than just an upgrade to the cards.
It’s about real couples, real conversations, and the quiet courage to stay curious together.
From idea to ink—it’s a love story you can hold in your hands.
xoxo,
Erin the Connectress