Come Closer™ — The Intimacy Card Deck for Couples
Reconnect emotionally. Rekindle desire. Feel the spark again.
The Come Closer™ Intimacy Deck helps couples deepen emotional closeness, ignite physical chemistry, and rediscover what actually turns each other on.
💋 52 intimacy prompts
💋 5 sensual categories
💋 Conversation + guided activities
💋 Co-created with a sex therapist
📦 Ships within 48 hours
🆓 Pick up Available in Austin, TX
💯 30 Day Love it Together Guarantee
📦 Deck Details
52 intimacy prompts across 56 cards (2.5” × 3.5”)
5 Intimacy Categories
How to Play Card + Digital Guide
300gsm smooth-finish cardstock, printed in the USA
Includes a luxe black velvet drawstring bag
Eco-conscious, safety-certified materials
Printed in the US
✨ Refined cards informed by real couples
✨ 2 brand-new activity cards
✨ Luxe velvet bag (no box) for a more intimate, discreet feel
✨ Updated design + user flow
✨ What Turns You On? Discovery Quiz
✨ An Invitation to Intimacy PDF Guide
📦Ships within 48 hours from Austin, Texas
Worldwide shipping available
VAT/taxes may apply to international orders
🚚 Comes with tracking + delivery insurance
Free local pickup in Austin, TX
💋30-Day “Love It Together” Guarantee
What Makes Us Different
Come Closer™ gives you structure, prompts, and playful energy to move past the usual “we should talk about it” and into:
💋 deeper emotional connection
💋 clearer communication
💋 shared desire
💋 sweeter tenderness
💋 wilder sparks
Each card helps you stop overthinking, get out of your head, and connect in a way that feels natural, sexy, and safe.
Your desire isn’t random, and intimacy isn’t luck.
Most couples want more closeness… they just don’t always know how to get there.
What are you in the mood for tonight?
Discover Five Intimacy Styles
Endless Ways to Get Closer.
Follow what you’re both in the mood for tonight… and explore a different desire next time you play.
Instant Spark & Chemistry
A Quick Flame thrives on heat, spontaneity, and the kind of passion that lights up fast and pulls you in.
Deep Emotional Bonding
A Heartfelt Connector loves slow conversation, meaningful closeness, and intimacy that feels like “finally, we’re here.”
Unrushed, Sensual Build-Up
A Slow Burn enjoys anticipation, gentle teasing, and a warm, gradual climb into desire and connection.
Playful, Curious Intimacy
A Playful Soul loves flirty energy, laughter, and lighthearted exploration that turns small moments into sparks.
Adventure, Daring, Novelty
A Thrill Seeker leans into excitement, new experiences, and bold ideas that keep passion feeling alive and fresh.
💋 Ways to Play That Satisfy You Both
Your deck blends deep conversations with touch-based activities so you can explore intimacy with ease, desire & playfulness.
💋 Start Here
Choose Your Adventure
Each of you picks 5–10 cards you’re excited to play.
Follow what sparks curiosity, desire, or fun—then combine your choices for a custom experience that fits your mood tonight.
💋 Mystery Pick
Shuffle the whole deck and draw cards at random.
Perfect when you want surprise, spontaneity, and a little “let’s see where this takes us” energy.
💋 Explore a Category
Pick one intimacy style and play through the cards together.
Choose a color, dive in, and stay with the same vibe for as long as it feels good.
💋 Go Deep
Pass cards back and forth and take turns going deeper into each prompt.
A slow, intentional way to build intimacy, savor the moment, and uncover what truly brings you closer.
Discover the cards
Hover over or tap each card to reveal what's inside
Designed by AASECT-Certified Sex Therapist, Vielka Kano to Help Couples Reconnect, Rekindle & Feel Seen
Therapeutic insight, delivered playfully.
With 25+ years helping couples navigate mismatched desire, communication blocks, and reconnection after distance or disconnect, Vielka created this deck to bring real therapeutic tools into a playful, exciting experience.
Every prompt is grounded in science, delivered with warmth, and designed to open new pathways to closeness — without pressure, awkwardness, or overthinking.
Real Couples. Real Results. Real Closeness.
These are real stories from couples who used the deck to reconnect, reignite desire & feel closer than they have in years.
“We were skeptical—but this game surprised us.”
“Not just fun—it deepened our bond in ways we couldn’t imagine.”
We felt motivated to come up with new and exciting ideas together.
A Luxe Touch
Each deck includes a soft black velvet drawstring bag — perfect for travel, gifting, or keeping things discreet.
A Fun Game Designed for:
Couples wanting more closeness
Reigniting passion
Busy partners who want intimacy that feels easy
Newlyweds, anniversaries, long-term partners
A Beautiful Gift for Any Love Story
Date nights
Wedding & anniversary gifts
Valentine’s Day
Bachelorette gifting
Come Closer Deck FAQs
What if one of us feels shy about talking about intimacy?
The prompts are gentle and guided.
Many couples find that reading from a card makes everything feel easier, safer, and more natural — especially if talking about intimacy feels new.
Is this game explicit?
Sensual, playful, and intimate — never crude or graphic.
How long does it take to play?
You can play for 10 minutes or dive in for an hour. There’s no right way — choose a few cards, explore a category, or let the deck take you deeper.
What if we have different levels of desire or want different things?
This deck is designed for couples like yours.
Each card gives you a structured, low-pressure way to talk about what you each enjoy. You move at your own pace, choose cards that feel good, and discover shared desire without force or pressure.
What if we’re not in a perfect place right now?
You don’t need to be. The deck is designed to help couples reconnect gently, without pressure to perform or “fix” anything. Go as slow as you’d like, skip anything that doesn’t feel good, and use the prompts to rebuild closeness one moment at a time.
Is this therapy?
It’s not therapy — but it is designed by an AASECT-Certified Sex Therapist and grounded in real therapeutic tools that have helped thousands of couples. It’s a playful, structured way to deepen connection at home.
What if we hit a card or category that doesn’t feel right?
Skip it — always. Intimacy should feel safe and easeful. Choose only the prompts that feel good for both of you.
Is it LGBTQ+ friendly?
Yes — totally inclusive and open-ended.
Is it long-distance friendly?
Yes! Use conversation cards on video calls and save activity cards for when you're together. (or get creative)
